4.3.17
PREDICTING RELATIONSHIP SATISFACTION: DARK TRIAD PERSONALITY TRAITS, LOVE ATTITUDES, ATTACHMENT DIMENSIONS
1. INTRODUCTION
Being capable of love is one of the most important
aspect of our nature. Having healthy intimate relationships are essential for
general psychological well-being. This research aimed to explore the influence
of particular personality characteristics -known as Dark Triad-, love styles
and attachment dimensions on relationship satisfaction, for the better
understanding of the factors interfering with healthy and satisfactory
relationships.
Many research revealed the importance of good, healthy relationships and great degrees of relationship satisfaction, as they increase psychological well-being, and linked with better physical and mental health (Baumeister & Leary, 1995, Guerrero, Anderson & Afifi, 201l).
Research indicated that are many underlying
psychological processes that influence the relationship quality, such as
personality traits (Bradbury & Karney, 2004), attitudes toward love
(Morrow, Clark & Brock, 1995) and attachment (Simpson, 1990).
Regarding relationship satisfaction, one important area to study has been the examination of love styles, which refers to six different types of attitude
toward love (Lee, 1973). Another important concept related to relationship
satisfaction is adult attachment. Attachment motivates us to create
affectionate bonds with others, throughout our lifespan (Bowlby, 1982).
Recently, a new constellation of particular personality
characteristics emerged in literature, namely, The Dark Triad. The Dark Triad
refers to an assemblage of three characteristics: subclinical narcissism, Machiavellianism and subclinical psychopathy (Paulhus & Williams,
2002).
It is important to study the potential factors related
to relationship satisfaction to learn more
about improving relationships. Although previous research investigated the
associations between adult attachment dimensions and love attitudes related to
relationship satisfaction (Fricker & Moore, 2002), there were not any
research investigated the joint influences of Dark Triad traits, attachment
dimensions, and love attitudes on romantic relationship satisfaction. At present, the extent to which dark triad traits,
attachment dimensions and love
attitudes are associated with the satisfaction in adult
romantic relationships is not clear, and it is also not clear that how these
relationship related elements are associated with relationship satisfaction in
Turkey.
1.1 Introducing the Key Concepts
1.1.1
Narcissism
1.1.1.1
Origins of
Narcissism in Mythology and Psychology
The origin of the term “narcissism” comes from Greek mythology, the story of Roman poet Ovid, about Narcissus. Narcissus is a very good looking young man who disdains the ones who fell in love with him and rejects many potential lovers, because in his eyes nobody matches him and none were worthy of him. One of the ones he spurns is the cursed nymph Echo, named after the fact that she can only echo the other people’s sounds because of the curse. After Narcissus rejects Echo, the gods grow tired of his behavior and they make him not recognize his own reflection and fall in love with himself in the waters of a spring. When he realized that the reflection cannot reciprocate his feelings, he dies out of misery.
Narcissism as a psychological concept
was first brought
in by Ellis (1898) to psychoanalytic
theory. Ellis introduced narcissism
to the psychiatry, by realizing the
similarity between the myth of Narcissus to the concept of “auto-eroticism”,
which he observed in a patient and refers to being sexually attracted to
oneself. Later, Freud (1914/1957)
utilized the term to describe extreme levels of love for oneself and
self-centeredness. His presentation of narcissism was different than Ellis,
because Freud presented narcissism by highlighting its importance on normal
human development and normal adult psychology, as well as its importance in
psychopathology. He theorized that narcissism was a normal part of
developmental pathway, before the
libidinal energy is invested to other people, instead of themselves. Freud
argued an individual’s libidinal energy is limited, and can be directed toward
only oneself or the others at the same time. Thus, he believed that the
progression from primary narcissism to object love results in a decrease in
self-regard. A healthy relationship is reciprocal, and because of the fact that
both people invest their libidinal energy into the other, none of them experiences a loss. However,
when the individual’s object of love doesn’t
return the investment, a regression to the unhealthy state of narcissism
occurs, which is called as “secondary narcissism”, which
serves as a compensatory mechanism, in order to love and gratify oneself.
In his famous
monograph On Narcissism: An Introduction (1914/1957), Freud differentiated
between two types of individual experiences of love. He explained that the
“anaclitic” or attachment-type individuals focus their love outward, preferably
to love objects that are reminiscent of early attachment figures. On the other
hand, narcissistic-type individuals focus their love inward, toward the self. In other words, Freud was explaining that love could be about the connection with the
other (anaclitic), or about the self (narcissistic).
He later suggested that narcissism is a personality variable which usually gets others’ attention, and characterized by being independent, self-preserved, confident, and inability to love or commit (Freud, 1931/1950).
Later, Karen Horney (1939/1966) described the concept of narcissism as
“self-inflation”. She argued that narcissism indicates love and admiration for
self when there is no basis for doing so. She indicated that admire and value oneself
for actual qualities
is real self- esteem.
Horney shared the idea of the origin of narcissism comes from not getting
adequate love by parents. She suggested that the unloved child creates a false
and inflated self to get admiration. She believed that narcissism derives from
not being able to love self or others, and the excessive self-love of a
narcissist is just a display, and
not real, in contrast with Freud’s theory
that narcissistic people invest all their love to themselves thus cannot give
it to others.
Years after the expanded conceptualization of narcissism by Freud and Horney, Kohut and Kernberg provide
improvements to understanding of narcissistic personality. Heinz Kohut (1971, 1977) narcissism occurs
due to inadequate mirroring and idealization from caregivers
.He argued that pathology emerges if the infant could
not properly develop self-assertive ambitions or internalized values and
ideals.
Kernberg (1975) emphasized the difference between
pathological narcissism and normal adult narcissism, describing that normal
narcissism includes a realistic self-concept as a combination of good and bad,
not an unrealistically perfect self-image. Kernberg indicated
that a pathological narcissist avoids depending on
others, and display emotional coldness, and self-love serves a defense
mechanism protects them from frustration and fear of abandonment that comes
from early childhood.
1.1.1.2 Subclinical Narcissism and Measurement
Narcissistic Personality Disorder definition in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders—5 (DSM–5; APA, 2013) includes need for admiration, lack of empathy, and grandiosity. In the past years, many studies revealed that narcissism is more of a continuum than a dimensional construct (e. g., Raskin & Hall, 1979; Samuel & Widiger, 2008), therefore, it was started to be studied in normal populations, as a subclinical trait (e.g., Miller & Campbell, 2008).
Narcissism has been studied as a personality
characteristic since Freud (1931/1950), first described a narcissistic type
person. Finally, Henry Murray (1938)
developed the first measurement instrument for narcissism, which he named as
“Narcism Scale”. Later, Raskin & Hall developed Narcissistic
Personality Inventory (NPI; 1979), the most popular scale regarding narcissism.
Many researchers have been shortened the inventory in later studies (e.g.
Raskin & Terry, 1988; Rose,
2002). The NPI was designed based on DSM definition, but it enlighted a new
path in the study of narcissism, because it was also applicable to be used in
normal population.
Although the validation studies of NPI was conducted in
clinical settings (Prifitera & Ryan, 1984), the results revealed that NPI
indicates higher functioning than other narcissism inventories specified for
clinic environments (Wink & Gough, 1990).
1.1.2
Machiavellianism: Origins of
the Term and Measurement
The term Machiavellianism is originally inspired from
Niccolo Machiavelli, who was Medici family’s chief political advisor in the
16th century. Machiavelli wrote about his counselling advices to maintain
political control in his book The Prince (1513/1968),
including the practice of manipulation and deceit to maintain political control
and reach personal goals in
public life. Based
on his strategic,
self-serving advices, the
term
‘Machiavellian’ has become a concept synonymous with
cunning and deceit. After four centuries, the personality psychologist Richard
Christie, realized that these strategies of Machiavelli had also parallells
with daily social behavior. Based on his writings, Christie and Geis (1970)
identified an individual who successfully uses manipulation to achieve personal goals,
and they use the term Machiavellianism to identify this type of interpersonal
behavior.
Machiavellist people behave toward others in a manner that is manipulative, goal-oriented, and exploitative, and they have a sensitive, cynical view toward others, and pragmatic morality (Ali, Amorim, & Chamorro-Premuzic, 2009; McIlwain, 2003). Machiavellians’ world view includes strategical tactics and behaviours (McIllwain, 2003).
Machiavellian people do not care about conventional morality and perform
deception tactics in order to achieve
personal rewards, and they also use deception to prevent others’
benefits (Wilson, Near, & Miller,
1996). Research revealed
their unability to recognize other people’s
emotions (McIlwain, 2003), and they are not affected by emotional situations
and they can keep their aloof attitude (McIlwain, 2003; Wilson, Near, & Miller, 1996).
Christie and Geis (1970) published a book including
questionnaires developed by Christie, to reveal individual differences in Machiavellianism. Among these measures, the most well- known and widely used one has become
the Mach IV. Later, Mach V, was
designed to be an improved version, but it was more problematic than expected (Wrightsman, 1991), therefore,
Mach IV was continued to be broadly used for measurement of Machiavellianism.
1.1.3
Psychopathy
1.1.3.1 The Construct of Psychopathy and Measurement
The term psychopathy similar to our modern description
as personality disorder was originated in Cleckley's The Mask of Sanity (1941/1988) in which he discussed the core
aspects of psychopathy and summarized the characteristics of psychopaths:
“superficial charm and above average intelligence, absence of delusions or
other signs of irrational thinking, absence of nervousness or psychoneurotic
manifestations, unreliability, untruthfulness and insincerity, lack of remorse
and shame, inadequately motivated and
poorly planned antisocial behavior, poor
judgment and failure
to learn from
experience, pathological egocentricity and an incapacity for love and
attachment, general poverty in major affective reactions, specific loss of
insight, general interpersonal unresponsiveness, fantastic and uninviting
behavior --such as vulgarity, rudeness, quick mood shifts--, after drinking and
sometimes even when not drinking, suicide rarely carried out, impersonal and poorly integrated sex life, and failure to follow any life plan” (Cleckley,
1941/1988).
Generally, the characteristics that Cleckley defined still preserve their importance in today’s description of psychopathy, except for high intelligence, absence of delusions/irrational thinking, and suicide rarely carried out (Hare, 2003; Lilienfeld & Andrews, 1996). Later, the Psychopathy Checklist (PCL) was developed by Hare (1980), and it has created a milestone in psychopathy research. It was designed to identify forensic psychopaths. PCL and revised version (PCLR; Hare, 1991/2003) have been considered as the pioneers of forthcoming instruments assessing psychopathy (Lilienfeld & Fowler, 2006; Williams, Paulhus, & Hare, 2007). Hare’s (1980) PCL instrument did not involve an item about Cleckley’s low anxiety (nervousness), as Hare noted that Cleckley's item was unrelated to the other core elements of psychopathy in validation studies. Later, Hare (2003) indicated that the researches demonstrate that self-reported anxiety and fear had weak and mostly negative correlations with PCL-R scores.
Afterwards, the Self-Report Psychopathy Scale was developed by Hare, as a self-report form of PCL (SRP; Hare, 1985). SRP-III (Paulhus et al., in press)
was developed as a current version of SRP. The
four PCL-R factors have four factors which corresponds with four factors of
SRP-III (Williams et al2007). Williams and colleagues (2007) found that SRP-III have good reliability and validity.
1.1.3.2 Subclinical Psychopathy and Measurement
Many researches have suggested that psychopathy, which
is characterized by emotional shallowness, manipulation in interpersonal relationships, and antisocial behavior,
can predict many behavioral
outcomes in forensic settings (Salekin, Rogers, & Sewell, 1996). While
there are many
researches about the
individual differences –regarding
behavior and
personality- of psychopath and non-psychopath criminals
(Newman & Schmitt, 1998; Rice,
Harris, & Cormier, 1992; Smith & Newman, 1990), another literature has
begun to emerge about self-reported psychopathic traits in normal populations
(e.g., Benning, Patrick, Blonigen, Hicks, & Iacono, 2005; Levenson, Kiehl,
& Fitzpatrick, 1995).
As seen in the early psychopathy literature, which encompasses many studies using the PCL- R to assess psychopathy specifically in forensic populations, the construct of psychopathy has generally been linked with antisocial and criminal behaviour, although years ago Cleckley (1941/1988) emphasized psychopathy do not have to essentially include antisocial behaviour, and antisocial behavior is not synonymous with psychopathology. Recently, Skeem & Cooke (2010) also emphasized that criminal behaviour is not the definitive feature of psychopathy. This point of view led the way toward developing self-report instruments that can be applicable to the nonclinical and noncriminal population, and researching about psychopathy as a personality trait in normal populations (Benning et al, 2005). There are three well-known measurements of self-reported subclinical psychopathy: Levenson's Primary and Secondary Psychopathy Scales (LPSP; Levenson et al., 1995), the Psychopathic Personality Inventory-Revised (PPI-R; Lilienfeld & Widows, 2005) and the Self-Report Psychopathy III (SRP-III; Paulhus, Neumann, & Hare, in press).
The LPSP was developed to assess primary
and secondary psychopathy in civil populations. The PPI was developed by
Lilienfeld & Andrews (1996) generally based on Cleckley's description, to
assess the prototypical personality characteristics of psychopathy, not the
antisocial behavior features in PCL-R Factor
2.
The newest version
of Self-Report Psychopathy Scale (Hare, 1985), the SRP-III
(Paulhus et al., in press) is
also one of the popular instruments used for measurement of subclinical
psychology.
1.1.1.4 Dark Triad: As A Constellation Of Three Dark
Traits
Paulhus and Williams
(2002) were the first researchers who emphasized the concept of ‘Dark
Triad’, a constellation of three personality traits that are distinct but also
have some similar qualities, namely narcissism, Machiavellianism and
subclinical psychopathy. It refers to the
variables which are in the subclinical range, that do
not require clinical attention. The development of measurement instruments of
subclinical narcissism starting with NPI (Raskin & Hall, 1979) and
subclinical psychopathy with SRP (Hare, 1991) has enabled research of the three
dark personality variables in normal populations.
Narcissism shifted from clinical literature into the
mainstream personality research when Narcissistic Personality Inventory was
published (Raskin & Hall, 1979). The consistency between the subclinical
version and the clinical definition made this transfer smoother (Campbell &
Foster, 2007).
Ray & Ray (1982) has anticipated that psychopathy will transfer into the mainstream personality literature when the only questionnaire for psychopathy was the one within the MMPI. Psychopathy is identified by low empathy with high levels of impulsivity and thrill- seeking (Hare, 1985; Lilienfeld & Andrews, 1996). Even when it is subclinical, psychopathy is still considered as the most dangerous and malign trait of the Dark Triad concept (Rauthmann, 2012).
On the other hand, Machiavellianism has never been
considered as a clinical syndrome. It has derived from the notes of
Machiavelli, which represents cynical, pragmatic and manipulative behavior in
order to reach success and personal goals (Christie & Geis, 1970).
Although these traits -narcissism, Machiavellianism, and
psychopathy- had distinct origins, there are overlapping elements, as all three include
a dark character with socially
undesirable nature with behavioral dispositions such as emotional
coldness, grandiosity, aggressiveness and manipulation (Paulhus & Williams, 2002).
McHoskey and colleagues (1998) reported that psychopathy and Machiavellianism may co-
occur in non-clinical populations. Recently,
a study by Nathanson & Paulhus (2006) including anonymous
revenge anecdotes revealed
that there is a significant overlap between The
Mach IV and subclinical psychopathy measures (McHoskey,
Worzel, & Szyarto, 1998; Paulhus & Williams, 2002). Morever, the
correlation between revenge and Machiavellianism was entirely derived from the
overlapping of Mach and subclinical psychopathy (Nathanson & Paulhus, 2006).
The association between psychopathy and narcissism has
been reported in the clinical literature (Hart & Hare, 1998). Gustafson
& Ritzer’s (1995) research provided empirical evidence for the overlap
of narcissism and psychopathy. Another
studies indicated a positive
correlation between psychopathy and narcissism, which encompasses grandiosity,
superiority, entitlement, and dominance (Lee & Ashton,
2005; Paulhus & Williams,
2002).
These correlations lead the questioning about Dark Triad members: if they are separate constructs, why they are always found to be positively associated no matter what measurement instrument was used. Paulhus & Williams (2002) noted that this possibly derives from an underlying element that is common for three constructs (Paulhus & Williams, 2002). Jones & Paulhus’ (2011a) further research revealed that callousness is the common element and the core of the triad. Research indicated that callousness (low empathy) appears to be having close relationship with using manipulation and exploitation in interpersonal settings (Miller et al., 2010).
There are two multivariate instruments to measure Dark Triad personality traits:
Dirty Dozen (Jonason & Webster, 2010), and the Short Dark Triad
(Jones & Paulhus, 2014). The results of
these two scales
are generally similar,
however, 27 items of Short
Dark Triad enhances
its validity comparing to 12 items of Dirty Dozen (Maples, Lamkin, &
Miller, 2014). Also, the intercorrelations
among narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy subscales are lower in Short Dark Triad,
implying the better
differentiation of overlapping constructs. Short Dark Triad
was found to be have more predictive power, comparing to Dirty Dozen
(Egan, 2012; Jones & Paulhus, 2014; Lee et al., 2013).
1.1.2
Introducing Love Attitudes
1.1.2.1
Early Theories of
Love & Lee’s Colors of Love
Paulo Coelho said in his novel The Zahir: A Novel of Obsession, “Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it
destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to
understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused.” (p. 79). Love has been
a part of being human, it is a
primitive function of humanity, thus,
throughout history, love has been
one of the primary topics for many philosophers, authors, and poets. Despite
its intriguing nature, the difficulty of operationally defining love has
challenged researchers.
During the past decade, love finally has gained importance as a respectable study area for psychologists, and studies have gained a rise to understand the depth of love and how it affects human interaction (e.g. Kelley, 1983; Rubin, 1984, as cited in Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986). Researchers began to propose theories of love which describes different types of love, beginning with describing passionate love, and later adding companionate love, altruistic love, and pragmatic love (Berscheid & Walster, 1974; Walster & Walster, 1978; Kelley, 1983; as cited in Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986). Sternberg (1986) developed the well-known triangular theory of love, in which love is categorized on three dimensions as intimacy (feelings of closeness and affection), passion (the arousal that you experience when you are attracted to another person), and commitment (desire to maintain a relationship over time). He claimed that different love styles base on these three components, and emphasized that a relationship including two or more of these components is stronger than including only one.
One approach to understand the concept of love and
different types of love, was proposed by Lee (1973/1976), who claimed a
typology of six distinct love styles, each given a Greek name. Lee’s first primary love style is Eros,
which describes romantic, passionate love. The individuals who have this love style
are driven by passion in romantic relationships. The second primary love style
is Ludus, game-playing love, which
implicates a tendency to deceive, aversion to commitment and emotional
involvement, and willingness to seek other potential partners when in a
relationship. The last primary love style is named as Storge, friendship love, which refers to
slow-developing relationship based on trust and companionship. First of Lee’s three main secondary styles is Mania,
possessive love, which is dominated
by a possessive, dependent attitude toward partner, involving feelings of jealousy. Another secondary love style is
Pragma, which can be explained as logical
and pragmatic, shopping list kind of love, based on suitability and
practicality over emotional involvement. The third and final secondary love
style is Agape, which describes self-
sacrificing love. These individuals regard the best interest of the
partner, and sacrifice their own desires and needs. Lee suggested that these
secondary styles can be considered as base primary elements of pairs of three
primary styles, but they are also distinct types of love. In other words, each
of them are compounds of a pair of the primary love styles (Pragma is a
compound of Storge and Ludus, Mania is a compound of Eros and Ludus, and Agape
is a compound of Eros and Storge)
but they each are also qualitatively different from each of the
primary styles (Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986).
Lee’s typography of love is important because it embodies the earlier proposed theories of love, and provides theoretical basis for developing scales to measure these six distinct love styles (e.g.: Hatkoff & Lasswell, 1979, as cited in Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986). Lee's research provided basis for the development of a 50-item true/false questionnaire to examine these love styles (Hatkoff & Lasswell, 1979; as cited in Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986). However, further research (Hendrick, Hendrick, Foote, & Slapion-Foote, 1984) combining the items in Lasswells' questionnaire with new Likert-type items, revealed some problems about factor structure of three main love styles (Eros, Ludus, and Storge), as they didn’t emerge as separate factors and tend to combine with another love style, triggered studies to develop a new measurement instrument for love attitudes. Hendrick & Hendrick (1986) developed Love Attitudes Scale (LAS), a 42-item-questionnaire with 6 subscales representing Lee’s six distinct love styles. Love Attitudes Scale has been used for many researches about attitudes toward love, and the initial studies generally focused on differences between men and women.
Previous studies about love styles frequently revealed
sex differences. Generally, men were
found to be more Erotic and Ludic lovers than women, whereas women reported
more Pragma and Mania than men (e.g. Hendrick & Hendrick, 1995). In other
words, men are more likely to have romantic and game-playing attitudes, whereas
women tend to be pragmatic and possessive. Another previous study of Hendrick
& Hendrick’s (1986) also revealed almost same results, as males scored
higher on Ludus, and females scored higher on Storge, Pragma and Mania. These
findings are indicating different behavioral
tendencies of men and women in romantic
settings.
Frazier and Esterly
(1990) reported that men were found to be more Ludic and Erotic lovers, however, results did not indicate that women score higher on Storge, Pragma
and Mania. On the other hand, results revealed that
men were significantly more Agapic than women. Although this finding contrasts
with previous studies’ findings (e.g Hendrick et. al, 1984), later, another study conducted by Fricker
and Moore (2002) reported similar findings. In general, men have more
game-playing attitudes in romantic relationships, whereas women tend to have
more practical, friendship and possessive styles.
1.1.3
Adult Attachment
1.1.3.1
Early Theories
& Assessment
Attachment theory (Bowlby,
1969) was originally proposed as a general theory of personality development. He claimed that our early experiences and availability expectations regarding our caregiver
shapes our “internal working models” of the self and significant others.
According to Bowlby’s (1982) theory, attachment serves both an evolutionary role for the species and a developmental function for the individual. The interactions between infant and caregiver develop into affect-laden schemas that guide the attached individual’s perceptions of self and others (so-called internal working models) and shape behaviors related to biological and psychological needs (Mikulincer et al., 2002). There are different categorizations regarding sense of security in adult attachment, such as Bartholomew’s (1990) model of “secure, preoccupied, dismissing, and fearful attachment”; however, taxometric findings strongly support a latent dimensional structure of human attachment (Fraley & Waller, 1998); in turn, these findings prompted the development of multiple-item scales, which typically assess aspects of attachment anxiety and avoidance dimensionally (Fraley & Waller, 1998).
As many attachment theorists explained (e.g Collins & Read, 1990; Hazan & Shaver, 1987), experiences from early attachments with significant other
are internalized to shape cognitive working models that guide
individuals’ beliefs and expectations about later social interactions in life.
If an individual fails to develop a secure attachment based on basic trust with the caregiver, a compensatory adaptive
strategy is needed
in order to maintain an intact
identity and a coherent self image (Bowlby,
1982). Ainsworth and her colleagues (Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters & Wall, 1978)
suggested if an infant could not form a secure attachment to its caregivers in
its early emotional development, it develops one of the two alternative
adaptive strategies to compensate its lack of security, and form an Avoidant attachment or Anxious Ambivalent
attachment. Research revealed that these attachment categories can be
applicable to adult attachment as well (Hazan & Shaver 1987). Shaver &
Mikulincer (2002) defined these three attachment styles as “systemic patterns
of expectations, needs, emotions, emotion-regulation strategies, and social behaviour
that result
from the interaction of an innate attachment behavioural system”
(p.134).
The theory of attachment facilitates understanding the
phenomenon of love in terms of personality and evolutionary psychology. As a
theoretical framework, attachment theory gives a basis for the understanding
human affectional bonds, including romantic relationships.
Hazan and Shaver (1987, 1988) by focusing on the secure attachment, avoidant attachment and anxious/resistant attachment in their research, explained the typical romantic processes of adults and differences between styles of relating. Results revealed that the attachment styles of adults were similar to their infancy, which leads individual differences in experiencing love. Their attachment styles were related to childhood memories about relationships with parents and inner working models, which were shaped by the early childhood experiences with parents.
Secure attachment in adulthood is characterized by
trusting the partner and getting close without
completely merging with another. These individuals considered “the self” as worthy
of care, they feel comfortable about being dependent upon and being dependent
on their partner, and they are not concerned with feeling of abandonment.
(Hazan & Shaver, 1987). Anxiously attached adults experience great desire
to merge with their partner, and have constant concerns about abandonment. They
crave for emotional closeness and constant reassurance for partner’s love (Collins &
Read, 1990). Individuals with avoidant attachment feel discomfort with intimacy
and interdependence. They want to keep emotions at low intensity (Hazan &
Shaver, 1987).
Adult attachment is evaluated by two underlying
dimensions, namely “attachment related anxiety and avoidance” (Brennan, Clark
& Shaver, 1998). Anxiety,
indicates constant rumination and worry about being abandoned or rejected by
partner. On the other hand, avoidance indicates the extent of feeling comfortable with emotional intimacy
and closeness with partner.
People scoring high on this dimension are typically reluctant about investing
in relationships and want to maintain emotional and psychological
independence., Securely attached people score low on both dimensions (they are
more comfortable with emotional intimacy
and are not
habitually concerned about
abandonment or rejection).
Research
revealed that even though individuals score high on
attachment anxiety want to be able to trust their partners, they are skeptical
about trusting them completely. Therefore, they are likely to have low or
moderate degrees of trust in romantic partners (Brennan, Clark & Shaver,
1998).
1.1.4
Relationship Satisfaction
1.1.4.1
Definition and Psychometric Assessment
Relationship satisfaction is generally the most broadly studied variable in romantic relationship research literature. There are many terms in previous researches that have been used to indicate the overall quality of a romantic relationship and are considered synonymous, such as marital (or relationship) satisfaction, happiness, quality, and adjustment (Heyman, Sayers, & Bellack, 1994). Rusbult and collagues (1998, p.359) explained it as the “positive versus negative affect experienced in a relationship and is influenced by the extent to which a partner fulfils the individual’s most important needs”. Many research revealed that high levels of romantic relationship satisfaction increases well- being (Baumeister & Leary, 1995). Also, recent research revealed that good, healthy relationships are linked with better physical and mental health (Guerrero, Anderson & Afifi, 201l). These findings lead the research focus upon the factors which are linked with healthy relationship satisfaction.
Many components of romantic relationship has been
studied in relation to relationship satisfaction. Because of the proposition that attachment manifest
itself in close relationships
and strongly connected to individual’s romantic attitude, research
on relationship satisfaction generally includes
attachment style (Hazan & Shaver, 1987; Hendrick & Hendrick, 1989;
Collins & Read, 1990; Simpson,
1990). Link between
love and relationship satisfaction also has
been investigated (Contreras et. al, 1996; De Andrade et. al., 2015) which
revealed significant relationships between components of love and satisfaction,
indicating that romantic love is an important predictor of relationship
satisfaction. Hendrick, Dicke & Hendrick’s (1998) research yielded that
attitude toward love and therefore, the love style of individual also has
contribution to the satisfaction from the relationship.
Relationship satisfaction has been generally measured by using self-report instruments to assess thoughts and feelings about relationship. The most popular measurement instruments of relationship quality include the Locke-Wallace Marital Adjustment Test (Locke & Wallace, 1959), Spouse Observation Checklist (Patterson, 1976), Dyadic Adjustment Scale (Spanier, 1976), and Marital Satisfaction Inventory (Snyder, 1979). Although all of these are widely used, several of them are relatively long with more than two hundred items, which make them unpractical, and all of them are oriented to marital relationships. There was a need for a shorter and general measure of relationship satisfaction, and 7-item Relationship Assessment Scale was developed by Hendrick (1988). Relationship Assessment Scale includes items that are worded as not specific to marriages, thus, it can be applied to other forms of intimate relationships.
1.2 Linking the Key Concepts
1.2.1 Love Attitudes and Relationship Satisfaction
Lee’s romantic love styles have been widely investigated in the literature
and reported to be related with many
consequences in everyday life, including relationship outcomes (e.g.,
relationship satisfaction, Davis & Latty-Mann, 1987; relationship
longevity, Kimberly & Hans, 2012).
Eros love style is characterized by passion and deep
physical attraction. Results revealed that Erotic lovers report high emotional
intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships (Davis & Latty-Mann, 1987; Hendrick, Hendrick
& Adler, 1988).
Eros lovers also have high level of concern for well-being of
partner and high relationship investment, therefore they tend to demonstrate
healthy and successful communication and self-disclosure skills (Hendrick &
Hendrick, 1987). Morrow and colleagues (1995) also reported that Erotic and
Agapic lovers tend to find their romantic
relationships more rewarding, more committed and more
satisfying.
Ludus is also characterized by intense sexual
attraction, but it differs from Eros in lack of emotional intimacy. Ludus
lovers prioritize personal satisfaction and having fun, and may be comfortable
maintaining multiple partners simultaneously (Lee, 1973). Hendrick et al.
(1988) reported that Ludus love style indicated
relationship dissatisfaction. Ludus
love style
is found to be negatively correlated with intimacy and
commitment (Morrow, Clark & Brock, 1995) and Ludus love style is found to
be associated with the least satisfaction in relationships (Meeks, Hendrick
& Hendrick, 1998).
Storge love is also known as friendship style of love,
and storge lovers emphasize companionship and compatibility over physical
attraction (Lee, 1973). Storge lovers indicated high levels of intimacy and
relationship satisfaction (Hendrick & Hendrick, 1993; Meeks, Hendrick & Hendrick, 1998).
As a secondary love style, Agape can be seen as a combination of two primary styles: Eros and Storge. It is characterized by sacrificing own desires and needs on behalf of the best interest of the partner (Lee, 1973; Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986), and Agape lovers were found to be extremely forgiving, committed, and supportive partners (Hahn & Blass, 1997). Agape love is linked with high commitment, relationship satisfaction and intimacy (Lin & Huddleston-Casa, 2005; Hendrick, Hendrick & Adler, 1988; Morrow, Clark & Brock, 1995). Similar to Eros lovers, they have high levels of relationship investment and concern for partner’s well-being (Richardson et al., 1989). Individuals who are or have been in loving or committed relationships are more likely to adopt Agape love than those have never been in love (Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986).
Pragma love emphasizes on rational decision
making about a relationship based on concerns such as personal and social
compatibility, family values, or education over physical attraction (Hahn &
Blass, 1997). Results demonstrated gender differences in characteristics of
pragma lovers. For instance, Hendrick & Hendrick (1991) found that
pragmatic females were more tend to pursue
closeness in romantic
relationships than males. Lower relationship satisfaction has been
related with Pragma for men (Frazier & Esterly, 1990), and Morrow and
colleagues (1995) reported that Pragma and Storge are linked with some
relationship quality measures. This finding is inconsistent with some previous
findings reported by others
(Davis & Latty-Mann, 1987; Shaver
& Hazan, 1988). In summary, there are not any findings indicating a direct correlation
between Pragma love style and relationship satisfaction. Therefore, no
significant association is expected between pragma and relationship
satisfaction.
Mania is characterized by rapid progression to intimacy, excessive
preoccupation with one’s
partner and constant need of great deal of attention and
affection, and Mania lovers tend to be emotional, obsessive
and jealous (Lee, 1973; Hahn and Blass, 1997). Hendrick,
Hendrick & Adler (1988) found that Mania is more likely to result in
a negative predictor of relationship satisfaction for women, than for their men counterparts.
Overall, mostly studies have reported higher
relationship satisfaction for Erotic and Agapic lovers, and lower for Ludic
lovers (Contreras, Hendrick, & Hendrick, 1996; Fricker & Moore, 2002).
Büyükşahin and Hovardaoğlu’s (2004) study in Turkey revealed that Ludus is linked with lower relationship satisfaction, while Agape and Eros love styles are linked with higher relationship satisfaction. All these findings reveal that love style of an individual can have a profound impact on relationship satisfaction.
1.2.2. Love Attitudes and Attachment
As Hendrick & Hendrick (1989) emphasized, the
attachment styles focus on two themes: trust and intimacy, while the love
styles extend this focus with communication themes essential to love. They suggested that attachment styles
are typically “the building blocks of
interpersonal relationships” (Hendrick & Hendrick, p.792), whereas the love
styles reflect the many beliefs and attitudes regarding love that result.
Hazan & Shaver (1987) used the theory of attachment
as a pathfinder to understand adult love. Based on the characteristics of Lee’s
six love styles, Hazan and Shaver (1988) have argued this typology of love is
corresponding to the three attachment styles. They claimed that Pragma
and Storge were not qualified as romantic love forms; secure
attachment would be
associated with Eros and Agape, anxious-ambivalent attachment with Mania, and
avoidant attachment with Ludus. Levy and Davis
(1988) also reported
similar findings, with positive relationships between Eros
and Agape love styles-secure attachment, Ludus- avoidant attachment, and
Mania-anxious attachment. Another study by Hendrick & Hendrick (1989) used
the same attachment items used by Hazan and Shaver (1987). In accordance with
previous research, avoidant attachment was associated with Ludus, and anxious-ambivalence
attachment style was associated with Mania. Moreover, an additional
relationship was reported between avoidant attachment and Pragma (Hendrick
& Hendrick,
1989). On the other hand, later study by Fricker &
Moore (2002) reported null findings for Ludus-avoidant attachment and
Agape-secure attachment links. Also, previous studies reported that greater
infidelity is linked with both avoidant (Feldman & Cauffman, 1999) and
anxious attachment (Bogaert & Sadava, 2002).
Another study of Hendricks et al. (1989) investigating gender differences in love styles, can also shed some light on gender differences in romantic attachment styles. Results revealed that indicating that there were no significant gender differences on Eros and Agape, however, men reported higher Ludic love style –which is related to avoidant attachment- than female participants. Morrow et al. (1995) also reported similar findings, indicating that Eros and Agape lovers reported higher commitment, whereas Ludus lovers reported lower. Similar results were reported by others (Neto, 1993; Sprecher & Toro-Morn, 2002; Neto, 2007). These finding demonstrates there are gender differences in attachment and love styles, which fundamentally can lead to differences in levels of relationship satisfaction.
1.2.3 Attachment and Relationship Satisfaction
Because of the fact that securely attached individuals
are comfortable with emotional closeness and don’t experience feelings of
abandonment, they tend to define their relationship as happy and positive
(Hazan & Shaver, 1987; Hendrick & Hendrick, 1989), and they generally
report greater trust, satisfaction, commitment and interdependence in their
relationship (Collins & Read, 1990; Simpson, 1990).
Anxiously attached people usually idealizes their
partner, but they feel uncertain about partner’s responsiveness, so they exhibit clingy
and needy behavior. Their self worth is low, and they find it hard to believe
their partners’ love toward them, so they habitually wait for reassurance from
their partner. They tend to report lower interdependence, commitment, trust and
relationship satisfaction in relationship (Simpson, 1990).
Avoidantly attached individuals experience discomfort
with emotional intimacy and closeness, thus, expectedly, they have difficulties about trusting and they expect
that partners will be
unresponsive. They report lower commitment, trust and relationship satisfaction
(Collins & Read, 1990; Simpson, 1990).
Mikulincer & Shaver’s (2007, as cited in Harma & Sümer,
2015) research revealed that the
linkage between relationship satisfaction and attachment dimensions (anxiety and avoidance) is constructed by using one of the two underlying strategies called as “hyperactivation” or “deactivation” of attachment system. Attachment related anxiety acts on hyperactivation strategies including ruminating about negative life events and adopting emotion-focused coping strategies. As research supported, these hyperactivation strategies are highly correlated with high degrees of stress and low relationship satisfaction (Allison, Bartholomew, Mayless, & Dutton, 2008; Mikulincer & Florian, 1995, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015). Attachment avoidance, on the other hand, activates deactivation strategies that include fear of intimacy and avoiding to depend on other individuals. These individuals with high avoidance also do not feel comfortable about providing support to their partner, therefore, attachment avoidance is linked with relationship dissatisfaction (Feeney, 2008, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015).
Studies showed that insecure attachment which includes
high attachment anxiety or avoidance has been linked with romantic jealousy,
greater partner aggression, and higher levels of reactivity and anger during
conflict (Hazan & Shaver, 1987; Mikulincer, 1998, as cited in Miga et. al,
2010). Research revealed that both anxiously and avoidantly attached
individuals reported lower satisfaction, commitment and trust in romantic
relationships (Collins & Read, 1990; Simpson, 1990).
Another research indicated that in contrast to securely
attached ones, anxious individuals consider conflict as a threat toward
relationship and their reactions include intense negative emotions (Paley, Cox,
Burchinal, & Payne, 1999, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015) and
behaviors that damage their relationship (Simpson, Rholes, & Philips, 1996,
as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015). This also might imply that individuals
high on attachment anxiety are likely to be more dissatisfied in their relationship. Moreover, as Li & Chan (2012) noted, attachment anxiety was reported to
be linked with more conflict in relationship, comparing to attachment avoidance. This finding
might be derived
from anxious individuals’ low threat threshold
and their hypervigilance to problems in their relationship (Mikulincer &
Shaver, 2007, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015). Another explanation might
be the high rejection sensitivity of highly
anxious individuals, which makes them more inclined
to perceive daily interactions as conflictual
(Campbell, Simpson, Boldry, & Kashy, 2005, as cited in Harma
& Sümer, 2015). On the other hand, Mikulincer and
Florian’s (1998, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015) research revealed that
avoidant individuals usually deactivate feelings related to attachment, therefore, they are less likely to
perceive conflict in relationship and tend to withdraw, rather than engaging in
disagreements. This might indicate that highly anxious individuals might report
lower satisfaction than avoidant individuals.
Previous research reveals that there are gender differences in predictive power of attachment anxiety and avoidance on relationship satisfaction. Both attachment dimensions seem to have almost equally associations with relationship dissatisfaction of women, while avoidance was found to be mostly linked with relationship dissatisfaction of men (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015).
1.2.4 Dark Triad Personality in Relationships
1.2.4.1
Narcissism in Relationships
There is considerable interest in the construct of
narcissism across subfields within psychology (Miller & Campbell, 2008).
Recent social psychological research revealed that Narcissism is linked to many
dysfunctional behaviors related to interpersonal relationships, and findings
include that they are unable to maintain healthy long-term interpersonal
relationships, they have low levels of commitment in romantic relationships,
and they display aggression in response to perceived threats
to self-esteem (Foster
& Campbell, 2005; Paulhus, 1998).
When we look at the interpersonal dynamics of
narcissistic traits, two of the core aspects of narcissism gains importance.
First, as mentioned before, narcissism is associated with an excessively
inflated self-view on agentic traits such as physical attractiveness,
importance, power (e.g., Campbell, Rudich & Sedikides, 2002). Another one
is that narcissism is linked with extraversion, although narcissists do not
prefer having emotionally close relationships with other people (Campbell,
1999).
Narcissists prefer partners who can provide esteem and
status for them both in a direct and indirect
way (Campbell, 1999).
They consider physical
attractiveness and agentic
traits such as status and
success, and they report that the reason they are drawn to these successful and
attractive partners is partly because these people are similar to
them (Campbell, 1999).
Horney (1939/1966) saw dire consequences in romantic relationships
of narcissistic individuals if children’s “narcissistic trend” was not
outgrown. They prefer shallow relationships that improve their prestige and
status, tend to have dysfunctional social behaviours such as being
self-centered and they have excessively inflated self-view. They always need
other people’s admiration and support, but they have difficulty in finding
partners who will constantly do this for them. Thus, Horney argues that
narcissistic individuals always in a alienation from the self and other people.
Kernberg (1975) noted that narcissistics generally formed clearly exploitative and even parasitic relationships with others, they control and exploit other people without guilt, and although they are charming on the surface, behind that, there is coldness and ruthlessness. He noted that these individuals appeared to be dependent because of their constant need of adoration from others, but deep inside they are actually unable to truly depend on to anyone because they depreciate others and do not trust in them (p .227-28).
Further research reveals results that strengthen these
general opinions such as Horney’s theory about narcissists seek relationships
which contribute their prestige and Kernberg’s thoughts about they are charming at the surface.
Based on the fact that narcissism is defined
by grandiosity, entitlement, vanity, and exploitativeness (Raskin & Terry,
1988), Campbell (1999) reported that narcissists generally don’t pursue
relationships in order to fulfill intimacy needs, and they are attracted to people whose
status are high and full of admiration for them (Campbell, 1999).
Their extraversion and energy are attract others
at first for a short period of time (Paulhus, 1998;
Oltmanns, Friedman, Fielder, & Turkheimer, 2004), but results reveals that
this attraction tends to fade, as their partners report that the relationship
can be satisfying and exciting especially at first, but that they lack intimacy
(Foster, Shira, & Campbell, 2003).
Many researches reveal that narcissistic people tend to
report high Ludus love style in relationships and always seek for better
options, even when they are a part of a serious committed relationship (Buss
& Shackelford, 1997; Campbell, Foster, & Finkel, 2002). Narcissists
game-playing serve to maintain their power and autonomy, and their low empathy
allows them to avoid developing emotionally close bonds (Campbell, Foster,
&
Finkel, 2002; Le, 2005). In summary, the relationship of
subclinical narcissist brings many positive outcomes to the self, at least in
the short-term, whereas it brings many negative consequences to their partner,
at least in the long-term.
Ahmadi and colleagues (2013) study shows that both
ambivalent and avoidant attachment are associated with high levels of
narcissism, whereas secure attachment is negatively correlated with high narcissism, similar to previous
findings (e.g Bennet,
2006; Moemeni et al., 2011; Ahmadi, 2012; as cited in
Ahmadi et. al, 2013).
Research also yielded that avoidant attachment is linked with overt narcissism or grandiosity, characterized by self-praise and denial of personal weaknesses, whereas attachment anxiety is associated with covert narcissism, which includes exaggerated sense of entitlement, self- focused attention and hypersensitivity to others’ evaluations (Wink, 1991). As Kernberg (1975) speculated to understand the causes of narcissism, there could be genetic factors that creates tendecy toward low anxiety tolerance or aggressiveness.
At the same time, Campbell
et al. (2006, as cited in Rohmann
et al, 2012) noted that approach
orientation toward other people is a fundamental narcissistic quality. This
assumption is supported by further research by Rohmann and colleagues (2012),
in which they reported that grandiose narcissism related to low attachment
avoidance, whereas vulnerable narcissism was positively correlated with
attachment anxiety. The positive association between narcissm and attachment
anxiety is supported by many other studies (Dickinson & Pincus, 2003; Neumann & Bierhoff, 2004; Smolewska & Dion, 2005),
while there are some
research yielding different results considering avoidance, indicating that
narcissism is positively related to attachment avoidance
(Popper, 2002, as cited in Rohmann et al., 2012), or there is no relation at all
(Smolewska & Dion, 2005, as cited in Rohmann et al, 2012). Therefore,
further research is required to clarify the association between narcissism and
attachment avoidance.
Several studies (Dickinson & Pincus, 2003; Otway
& Vignoles, 2006; Smolewska & Dion, 2005) consistently reported an
association between attachment anxiety and vulnerable/hypersensitive narcissism. No significant links
between grandiose narcissism and attachment were found in these studies, with the possible
exception of the high rate of
dismissive attachment observed among grandiose
narcissists by Dickinson and Pincus (2003).
These findings indicating strong associations with vulnerable narcissm with attachment can probably be explained by the emphasis that although vulnerable narcissism substantially overlaps with grandiose narcissism, vulnerable narcissism turns out to be the key predictor of attachment –especially anxiety- and love styles (Rohmann et al, 2012), compared to grandiose narcissism. Anxiety which is associated with vulnerable narcissism, seems to influence to the formation of relational styles either in terms of attachment related anxiety or in terms of different personal love attitudes.
Previous researches investigated narcissism in romantic
relationships, however, research rarely examined the relation of narcissism to relationship satisfaction. Lam (2012) found that
narcissism has a negative correlation with relationship satisfaction, however, the association is mediated by positive love
perception discrepancy.
1.2.4.2 Machiavellianism in Relationships
Although research rarely examined Machiavellianism in
romantic relationships, existing studies shows that Machiavellian people lack
warmth and emotional bonding in interpersonal communications, and they tend to
avoid emotionally close relationships (Ali, Amorim, & Chamorro-Premuzic,
2009; Bereczkei, Birkas & Kerekes, 2010; McIllwain, 2003; Wai &
Tiliopulous, 2012; Wastell & Booth 2003; Wilson et al., 1996). They have an
utilitarian approach toward
personal relationships, and they see other people
as tools to reach
personal goal (Christie & Geis, 1970; Wastell & Booth, 2003; Pilch,
2008). Expectedly, Machiavellianism is associated with lower quality
friendships in adulthood (Lyons & Aitken,
2010).
Christie and Geis (1970) theorized
that the main differentiating component
between low and high Machiavellians is the extent of
their emotional investment into relationships. The emotionally detached interpersonal orientation is considered as an
essential component of Machiavellianism and the degree of this orientation
identifies high Machiavellians by the term “cool
syndrome” opposing to low Machiavellians described by the term “soft touch”
(Christie & Geis, 1970). More recently, Wastell and
Booth (2003) supported this idea by finding that Machiavellian individuals are
characterised by alexithymia, which refers to having poor inner experiences,
they are unaware of their own emotions. Consequently, as many researchers
reported, they are unable to empathize with others (Jakobwitz & Egan, 2006;
Paál & Bereczkei, 2007).
Many studies suggest that Machiavellianism, partly derives from early relationships with unexpressive and restrictive parents, similar to the development of dismissive-avoidant attachment (Christie & Geis, 1970; Guterman, 1970; Ojha, 2007). As Sherry, Hewitt, Besser, Flett, & Klein (2006) argue, Machiavellian individuals prefer to show their positive abilities to the others and they do not disclosure their feelings or flaws based on the belief that sharing feelings or personal vulnerabilities indicate weakness which led others to exploit them. This finding is compatible with previous research, reported that Machiavellian individuals’ view of other people is highly negative, and they think that people are cheaters (Mudrack, 1993). These features are likely to negatively affect the Machiavellian individual’s intimate relationships. Research shows that high Machiavellist individuals avoid to establish committed, emotionally intimate bonds and they prefer short-term relationships with low emotional investment (Jonason, Li, Webster, & Schmitt, 2009).
Although the results
reported that Machiavellians are mostly dismissing-avoidant, avoidance seems to be accompanied by some
attachment anxiety characteristics in their close relationships. Many research
emphasized that high Machiavellians have dysfunctional qualities including unbalanced emotional functioning, the experience of negative affect
such as increased anxiety, depressive symptoms, and negative and hostile
attitudes (Jakobwitz & Egan,
2006; McHoskey, 2001b; McHoskey et al., 1998; Paulhus & Williams, 2002).
Ináncsi, Láng and Bereczkei (2015) has found that four anxious attachment
dimensions is closely related to Machiavellianism: individuals high on
Machiavellianism feel lower separation anxiety, greater
attachment-related anger, more desire to merge with their partner and they are more uncertain about their
feelings towards their partners.
Research revealed that high Machiavellianism is linked
with hostile sexual attitudes, selfish/deceptive sexual tactics (i.e cheating),
and promiscuity (Linton & Wiener, 2001, Jonason, Li, Webster, &
Schmitt, 2009; McHoskey, 2001a). However, these links seem to be absent or
weakened in females (McHoskey, 2001a). This finding is similar to the gender
differences in general
Machiavellianism scores, that men scores
higher in Machiavellianism than women (Christie
& Geis, 1970), because women have more long-term-oriented reproductive
strategies (Buss & Schmitt, 1993).
Although research examining the link between
Machiavellianism and relationship satisfaction is very rare, Ali &
Chamorro-Premuzic (2010) reported that Machiavellianism has negative
associations with the two of Sternberg’s (1988) intimate love components
related to a satisfactory relationship : commitment and intimacy. Recently,
Hyla (2015) noted that Machiavellianism is negatively correlated with and
predicted relationship satisfaction, for both women and men.
1.2.4.3 Psychopathy in Relationships
Psychopaths are described as selfish, lacking
guilt and empathy,
and desire to dominate and manipulate others for personal gains
(Hare, 1999). As expected, their friendships and romantic relationships
generally tend to be short-lived (Jonason et al. 2009). Promiscious behavior is
generally known as a defining feature of psychopathy (Cleckley 1941/1988; Hare,
2003). Previous studies has reported that promiscuous sexual behavior is
positively related with psychopathy, in both community
settings (Seto, Khattar,
Lalumiere, & Quinsey, 1997), and forensic settings
(Harris, Rice, Hilton, Lalumiere, & Quinsey, 2007). Williams and colleagues (2005) reported that psychopathy appears
to be linked with infidelity. Results showed that psychopaths are constantly thinking about
or actively seeking other potential short-term sexual partners, even when they
are or their target is in a relationship. This research also revealed that it
is not important for psychopaths to know about their target, it can even be a stranger.
Although the research examining the link between
attachment styles and psychopathy is relatively little, recently, Mack,
Hackney, and Pyle (2011) conducted a study including college students and
indicated that individuals that scored high on attachment avoidance
(dismissing) and attachment anxiety (preoccupied) reported
both more primary
psychopathy traits, such as low empathy and manipulativeness, and
secondary psychopathy traits, e.g their degree of engaging in antisocial behavior.
Overall, this finding
reveals that individuals who have hyperactive and
deactivated attachment systems tend to have more interpersonal and affective
psychopathy traits.
Savard and colleagues
(2015) recent research examining the relationship between attachment dimensions
and psychopathy traits using actor-partner interdependence model, indicated that men’s scoring
in high primary psychopathy traits
during the first test predicted higher attachment related
avoidance in the second test, although the finding is not true for women.
Moreover, the association between primary psychopathy and attachment anxiety
got stronger over the one year period,
but only for men, indicating that men that has reported more psychopathy also reported
higher fear of intimacy. The secondary psychopathy scores predicted greater attachment anxiety and avoidance over time, for both genders.
Results also showed that,
over time, the impulsive and irresponsible behavior, becomes increasingly
associated with both to fear of rejection and tendency to withdraw from partner.
Williams, Spidel and Paulhus’s (2005) research also
showed that psychopaths have lower levels of trust and commitment in
relationships, and they are generally more dismissive- avoidant. They also
reported that negative correlations between psychopathy and relationship
commitment and trust in relation to one’s partner. As Williams and colleagues
(2005) noted, their dismissive attachment style and lack of commitment might be
partly responsible for their infidelity. On the other hand, early adolescent
attachment anxiety predicts both the presence and frequency of risky sexual
behaviour over the adolescence period (Kobak, Zajac, & Smith, 2009).
Smith and her collagues (2014) also reported that men’s
psychopathy is negatively linked with their relationship satisfaction, and
there is a negative association between psychopathy
and relationship commitment for both genders.
1.2.4.4 Dark Triad Personality in Relationships
Although the concept of Dark Triad personality has
gained importance in this decade, there is still not much work that examines
the functioning of overall Dark Triad in relationship contexts. Dark Triad traits
are defined as malevolent due to their exploitive and manipulative
behaviors — acts upon own personal goals without considering other people or
sacrificing others’ benefit (Jones & Paulhus, 2011b). Thus, social
behaviours of individuals high on Dark Triad generally include manipulation and
exploitation, and lack warmth (Paulhus & Williams, 2002). In spite of the constellation of these
three traits are generally related with negative personal traits
such as impulsive behavior, self-centeredness, callousness, and
exploitation of other people (Paulhus & Williams, 2002; Lee & Ashton, 2005; Jonason, Koenig & Tost, 2010; Jones & Paulhus, 2011a), recent work on Dark Triad has revealed that Dark Triad traits can provide advantages in mating, especially by increasing success in exploitative, short-term mating (Jonason, Li, Webster, & Schmitt, 2009). According to the researchers, these traits creates an opportunistic and aggressive short-term mating strategy which leads to effective, successful results (Jonason, Li, Webster, & Schmitt, 2009; Jones & Paulhus, 2010), and their engagement with deceptive mechanisms such as insincere commitment and feigned mate value, facilitates their success in short-term relationships (Seto, Khattar, Lalumiere, & Quinsey, 1997). This emphasizes the role of Dark Triad personality traits on attitude toward relationships and love.
Research revealed that individuals –especially men- who
are scoring high on these traits - especially
men- report higher
numbers of sexual
partners, and they seek for low-commitment
relationships (Jonason et al., 2009;
Jonason, Luevano, & Adams, 2012).
They are also more
engaged in infidelity because of their callous and manipulative behavioral
pattern (Jonason, Li, & Buss,
2010). Based on these findings, it can be seen that Dark Triad personality
traits have an influence on shaping general attitude toward romantic relationships.
Ludus love style has previously been shown to be
positively correlated with psychopathy and narcissism (Campbell et al., 2002;
Jonason & Kavanagh, 2010; Miller, Gentile, & Campbell, 2013). Jonason
& Kavanagh’s (2010) research validated this proposition by yielding that
individuals that score high on DT reported more Ludus and pragma love style. The association with Ludus is
compatible with previous research indicating that Dark Triad shows a disposition to prefer immediate and short-term
rewards instead of long-term benefits, (e.g., Jonason
et al, 2009) and they prefer sexually-driven, short-term relationships
(Jonason et al., 2009). Considering the high scoring
on Pragma, Jonason
& Kavanagh (2010) suggested that this can be
expected because individuals scoring high on DT might pursue ‘‘love’’
relationships because of the other person’s usefulness for them, rather than of their affections toward them. These
suggestion parallels with previous research indicating that various emotional
dysfunctions (i.e lack of empathy) are associated with Dark Triad traits (e.g.,
Ali et al., 2009), and their competitive and individualistic nature (Jonason,
Li, & Teicher, 2010). Research revealed that relationship quality is
negatively related with some of these Dark Triad characteristics such as low scoring on conscientiousness (Jonason
&
Webster, 2010), using strategies oriented toward short-term mating (Jonason, Li, Webster, & Schmitt, 2009) and high scoring on Ludus (Jonason & Kavanagh, 2010). Research indicates that Ludus love style is linked with greater negative relationship maintenance behaviors and lower commitment and satisfaction level (Goodboy & Myers, 2010, as cited in Smith et. al, 2014). Moreover, dating and married individuals –both men and women- having low conscientiousness were found to be less satisfied in their relationships if their partners are also have low conscientiousness (Decuyper, de Bolle, & de Fruyt, 2012, as cited in Smith et al, 2014). On the other hand, a study conducted by Jones & Paulhus (2010) indicated that individuals high in Dark Triad also have various long-term-oriented strategies, especially Machiavellians seemed to adjust their strategies according to the their benefit toward their long-term goals.
1.3 Aims of the Study
Although there are studies focusing on the reflections
of narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy as dark triad traits in
relationships, they are mainly focused on mating behaviours (Jonason, Li,
Webster, & Schmitt, 2009), love attitudes (Jonason & Kavanagh, 2010)
and attachment (narcissism; Ahmadi et. al, 2013; Machiavellianism; Ináncsi,
Láng and Bereczkei, 2015;
psychopathy; (Savard et al, 2015),
and they rarely
explore the influence of these traits on the
relationship satisfaction of individuals. Moreover, dark triad traits is
relatively new area of the study, therefore,
there are only a few studies investigating these traits in Turkey (e.g Yetişer,
2014).
Research suggests that there are some links between dark
triad personality, love attitudes and attachment, and many research indicates
that each of these are also linked with satisfaction in a relationship. Lee’s
six love styles were found to be linked with several relationship outcomes,
including relationship satisfaction, (Davis & Latty-Mann, 1987). Hendrick & Hendrick (1989) emphasized the connection between
attachment and love styles
by describing attachment styles are the foundations of interpersonal
relationships, and the love styles reveals beliefs and attitudes about love
that based on these attachment orientations.
Research revealed that attachment dimensions are also linked
with relationship outcomes, by indicating that both anxiously and avoidantly attached
individuals reported
lower levels of commitment, trust and satisfaction in romantic relationships (Collins & Read, 1990; Simpson, 1990).
Previous literature indicates
that there are relationships between
some qualities of dark triad traits and low relationship quality
such as having ludic (game-playing) love style (Jonason & Kavanagh, 2010),
using short-term mating strategy (Jonason et al, 2009), having low
conscientiousness (Jonason & Webster, 2010).
These connections imply that love styles, attachment dimensions and dark triad characteristics (narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy) might predict relationship satisfaction.
The present study aims to explore the associations
between dark triad traits, attachment dimensions, love attitudes and
relationship satisfaction in Turkish population, and extend previous findings
regarding relationship research in our country.
More specifically, the present study aims to investigate the
relationship between dark triad personality traits, love attitudes, attachment
dimensions, and the extent to which relationship satisfaction could be
predicted by dark triad traits,
love styles, attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance. This
study also aims to compare dark triad personality traits, love attitudes,
attachment dimensions and relationship satisfaction across different
relationship status groups, age and gender.
Based on previous literature, it was hypothesised that:
1.
Males will report more Machiavellianism and Psychopathy
than women.
2.
Males will report more Ludus love
style, whereas females will report more Mania
love style.
3.
Eros and Agape love styles will be
significantly positively correlated with relationship satisfaction.
4.
Ludus love style will negatively correlate with and
predict relationship satisfaction.
5.
Dark Triad traits would be
negatively associated with and predict relationship satisfaction.
6.
Anxiety and avoidance would be
negatively associated with and predict relationship
satisfaction.
7.
Attachment related anxiety would be positively
correlated with Mania.
8.
Attachment avoidance would be positively correlated
with Ludus.
9.
Narcissism and Machiavellianism
would be positively correlated with both attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance.
10. Psychopathy would
be positively associated with attachment avoidance.
11. Machiavellianism
and Psychopathy will be significantly associated with Ludus.
12. Narcissism will
be significantly associated with Eros and Ludus.
2. METHOD
2.1 Participants
This study was conducted with 336 volunteer participants
consisting of 131 male and 205 female undergraduate students
who were taking
courses from Arts and Science
faculty at the Dogus University and Dokuz Eylül
University. They were given extra credit for their participation. Age of
participants ranged from 19 to 43, with a mean age of 24.09 years (SD=3.10).
2.2 Data Collection Instruments
2.2.1
Demographic Information Form
Demographic Information Form
Demographic information form (See Appendix B) was given
to collect information regarding participants’ gender,
age, socioeconomic status,
income level, education level, and
occupation.
2.2.2 Experiences in Close Relationships Scale – Revised (ECR-R)
Experiences in Close Relationships-Revised (ECR-R) was
developed by Fraley, Waller & Brennan (2000). The questionnaire includes 36
likert-type items that assesses two dimensions: Anxiety and Avoidance, 18 items
for each subscale. High Avoidance scores indicates finding discomfort with
intimacy and seek independence, whereas high Anxiety scores indicates tendency
to fear rejection and abandonment. Cronbach alpha values for Avoidance and
Anxiety subscales were 0.90 and 0.86, respectively. Turkish adaptation of the
scale was conducted by Selçuk, Günaydın, Sümer and Uysal (2005). Test-retest
reliability coefficients for the subscales were 0.81 and 0.82, respectively.
2.2.3 Relationship Assessment Scale (RAS)
Relationship Assessment Scale was developed by Hendrick
(1988) as a measure of general relationship satisfaction. It contains 7
Likert-type items with responses ranging between 1 (low satisfaction) and 5
(high satisfaction). Items 4 and 7 are reverse scored to avoid respondent bias.
Scoring is kept continuous, mean score obtained
by adding up the items and
dividing by 7. Higher score indicates the respondent is
more satisfied with his/her relationship. This instrument was originally
developed based on 5-item Marital Assessment
Questionnaire used in previous research (Hendrick, 1981), aiming to widen the
focus to romantic relationships in general. Principal
Components Factor Analysis, with an eigenvalue greater than one, revealed one
factor, explaining 46% of the variance. Intercorrelations among the RAS scale
items mostly in moderate range, and the item-total correlations were between .573 and .760, all at p<.05. Turkish
translation of the RAS was conducted by Curun
(2001), with 140 university students who had romantic relationships. Factor
analysis revealed one single factor. Internal
consistency coefficient of the scale was .86.
2.2.4
Short Dark Triad (SD3)
Short Dark Triad (Jones
& Paulhus, 2014) includes 27 items regarding subclinical narcissism, subclinical psychopathy and Machiavellianism. Items’ responses range between
1 (strongly disagree) and 5 (strongly agree). To
avoid respondent bias, 5 items were reverse coded. SD3 has 3 subscales
and each of these subscales includes 9 items. The subscales are named as:
Machiavellianism, Narcissism and Psychopathy. Since each subscale consists of
equal number of items, the subscale scores calculating by the mean of 9 items
within each subscale. Psychometric properties of the scale were investigated by
Jones and Paulhus (2013). Reliability of the SD3 was evaluated by examining the
Cronbach alpha values. The subscales showed modest,
but acceptable reliabilities (Machiavellianism a = .71, Narcissism
a = .74,
Psychopathy a = .77). Machiavellianism correlated positively with psychopathy, r
= .50, and with narcissism, r =.18. Psychopathy correlated with narcissism at r = .34. (p<.001). Turkish
standardization of the scale was conducted by Eremsoy, Gültekin, Uysal &
Bahçekapılı (2015). Turkish version consists of 12 items, due to deleted 15
items according to study results. Cronbach alpha values for narcissism,
psychopathy and Machiavellianism subscales are .75, .82, and .74, respectively.
2.2.5 Love Attitudes Scale (LAS)
Love Attitudes Scale (Hendricks & Hendricks, 1986)
contains 42 Likert-type items with responses
ranging between 1
(strongly agree) and
5 (strongly disagree).
It has six
dimensions, each includes 7 questions regarding different attitudes toward love, based on a theory of love proposed by Lee (1973/1976) who suggested a typography of six love approaches, namely Eros (passionate love), Ludus (game-playing love), Storge (friendship love), Pragma (practical love), Mania (possessive love), Agape (altruistic love). Sum scores for each subscale is measured separately. Because of the items were scored as (1 = strongly agree to 5 = strongly disagree), lower score indicates that subject is more subscribed to the love style measured by a given item. Reliability of the Love Attitudes Scale was evaluated by examining the Cronbach alpha values for Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma, Mania, and Agape as .70, .76, .62, .81, .73, and .84, respectively. The lowest alpha coefficient belonged to the Storge factor. Furthermore, test-retest correlations after 4 to 6 weeks were between .60 (Eros) and .78 (Pragma). A second study was conducted after Love Attitudes Scale was subjected to a minor revision, and reported that Cronbach alpha values ranged from .68 for Storge to
.83 for Agape.
2.3 Procedure
Before administering the instruments, necessary ethical
approval were obtained from Ethic Committee of Doğuş University. Volunteer participants were either sent an
online survey through SurveyMonkey web site to complete the scales, or were
given the scales in hard copy in class. Before the administration, participants
read and signed a page in which they were informed about the purpose of the study, anonymity of their responses and
confidentiality of the data. Then, the participants completed demographic information form, the Experiences in Close Relationships-Revised (ECR-R),
Relationship Assessment Scale (RAS), Short Dark Triad, and Love Attitudes Scale
(LAS). Completing the whole instruments took approximately 25 minutes per participant.
3. RESULTS
In this stage, four stages of analyzing data will be
explained. In the first stage,
descriptive statistics will be demonstrated, in second stage, the basic
correlations between the variables
will be given, in third
stage, regression analysis
will be provided, and in the fourth and final
stage, the proposed model will be explained.
3.1 Descriptive Statistics and Bivariate Correlations between the Study Variables
In this section, descriptive statistics and basic correlations among study variables are provided. To examine gender differences in the study variables, we run independent sample t-test. Results yielded that male participants reported more Machiavellian characteristics (M
= 2.96, SD =
.96) than female participants (M =
2.73, SD = .92); t (334) = 2.20, p < .05,
r=.12. Similarly, males showed
higher psychopathy levels
(M = 2.35, SD = .82) than females
(M = 2.17, SD = .80); t (334) =
2.06, p < .05, r=.11. Male participants also more
reported Ludus love style (M = 19.33,
SD = 5.95) than female participants (M = 16.55, SD = 5.30); t
(334) = 4.33, p < .01, r=.24. Results also revealed that female
participants displays Mania love style (M
= 21.69, SD = 5.21) more than
male participants (M = 20.42, SD = 5.40); t (334) = 2.09, p <
.05, r=.12.
Table 1. Descriptives
and gender differences in the study variables
Total
Sample
|
Male
|
Female
|
|||||||
M
|
SD
|
Ma x
|
Min
|
M
|
SD
|
M
|
SD
|
t
|
|
Machiavellianis m
|
2.82
|
0.9
4
|
1.00
|
5.00
|
2.96
|
0.9
6
|
2.73
|
0.9
2
|
2.20*
|
Narcissism
|
2.87
|
0.9
0
|
1.00
|
5.00
|
2.99
|
0.9
2
|
2.80
|
0.8
8
|
1.91
|
Psychopathy
|
2.24
|
0.8
1
|
1.00
|
5.00
|
2.35
|
0.8
2
|
2.17
|
0.8
0
|
2.06*
|
Anxiety
|
3.49
|
0.8
5
|
1.00
|
7.00
|
3.45
|
0.8
7
|
3.51
|
0.8
4
|
0.60
|
Avoidance
|
4.35
|
0.6
5
|
1.00
|
7.00
|
4.37
|
0.7
3
|
4.34
|
0.5
9
|
0.39
|
Eros
|
23.9
0
|
5.9
6
|
1.00
|
35.0
0
|
23.8
7
|
5.7
5
|
23.9
0
|
6.1
3
|
0.05
|
Ludus
|
17.6
4
|
5.7
1
|
1.00
|
35.0
0
|
19.3
3
|
5.9
5
|
16.5
5
|
5.3
0
|
4.33*
*
|
Storge
|
20.1
8
|
5.4
0
|
1.00
|
35.0
0
|
20.4
0
|
5.6
6
|
20.0
2
|
5.2
4
|
0.61
|
Pragma
|
22.4
7
|
5.9
6
|
1.00
|
35.0
0
|
21.9
7
|
6.3
2
|
22.7
8
|
5.7
3
|
1.19
|
Mania
|
21.2
0
|
5.3
2
|
1.00
|
35.0
0
|
20.4
2
|
5.4
0
|
21.6
9
|
5.2
1
|
2.09*
|
Agape
|
22.4
3
|
6.0
7
|
1.00
|
35.0
0
|
22.7
8
|
6.4
0
|
22.2
1
|
5.8
7
|
0.81
|
Relationship Satisfaction
|
3.35
|
0.5
6
|
1.00
|
5.00
|
3.29
|
0.6
3
|
3.39
|
0.5
1
|
1.23
|
*p < .05; **p < .01
A series of one-way ANOVAs was conducted to examine
relationship status differences in the study variables (for the statistics see
Table 2). Results indicated that there were main effects of relationship status
groups on psychopathy, eros, and agape, F
(2, 336) = 5.81, p <
.01, h2 = .03; F (2, 336) = 7.00, p < .001, h2 = .04; F (2, 336) = 4.61, p < .01, h2 =.03,
respectively. Further, Scheffe post-hoc tests indicated
that individuals with having relationship reported more psychopathy (M = 2.37, SD = 0.86) than individuals that are not into anyone/not in a relationship and individuals that are into someone but not currently
in a relationship with them (M = 2.08, SD = 0.75; M = 2.05, SD = 0.69, respectively) (see Table 2).
Moreover, results yielded
that individuals that are in a relationship reported higher Eros love
style (M = 24.68, SD = 5.84) than individuals that are not
into anyone/not in a relationship and individuals that are into someone but not
in a relationship (M = 24.15, SD = 5.83;
M = 21.57, SD = 5.89, respectively) (see Table 2).
Results also showed that individuals who are not into
anyone/not in a relationship reported more Agape love style (M = 24.18, SD = 5.48) than individuals who are in a relationship and individuals who are into someone
but not in a current
relationship (M = 22.40,
SD = 6.09; M
= 21.00, SD = 6.19, respectively).
In a Relationship
|
Into someone but
not in a relationship
|
Not into anyone
and not in a relationship
|
|||||
M
|
SD
|
M
|
SD
|
M
|
SD
|
F
|
|
Machiavellianism
|
2.90
|
.92
|
2.62
|
.92
|
2.82
|
.99
|
2.49
|
Narcissism
|
2.96
|
.89
|
2.76
|
.91
|
2.74
|
.91
|
2.26
|
Psychopathy
|
2.37
|
.86
|
2.05
|
.69
|
2.08
|
.75
|
5.81**
|
Anxiety
|
3.43
|
.86
|
3.56
|
.83
|
3.57
|
.83
|
0.99
|
Avoidance
|
4.32
|
.64
|
4.33
|
.68
|
4.43
|
.68
|
0.72
|
Eros
|
24.68
|
5.84
|
21.57
|
5.89
|
24.15
|
5.83
|
7.00***
|
Ludus
|
17.68
|
6.01
|
17.52
|
5.55
|
17.66
|
4.99
|
0.20
|
Storge
|
20.52
|
5.50
|
19.92
|
4.80
|
19.43
|
5.74
|
1.06
|
Pragma
|
22.90
|
5.89
|
22.09
|
6.14
|
21.59
|
5.94
|
1.30
|
Mania
|
21.39
|
5.37
|
20.61
|
5.47
|
21.30
|
4.99
|
0.57
|
Agape
|
22.40
|
6.09
|
21.00
|
6.19
|
24.18
|
5.48
|
4.61**
|
*p < .05; **p < .01
Bivariate correlations indicated significant
associations between the study variables. As presented in Table 3, zero-order
correlations yielded that Machiavellianism was positively associated with
narcissism, psychopathy, attachment related anxiety, attachment avoidance, and ludus. Narcissism was
positively correlated with psychopathy, eros and ludus love styles. Psychopathy
was found to be positively associated with attachment related anxiety, ludus
and storge love styles, whereas negatively linked with relationship
satisfaction of participants. Attachment related anxiety was positively
associated with attachment avoidance and mania love style,
and surprisingly, with storge, pragma,
and agape love styles.
Expectedly, attachment anxiety was
negatively associated with relationship
satisfaction.
Attachment avoidance was positively correlated with eros, storge, pragma, mania, agape love styles and unexpectedly, with relationship satisfaction. (see Table 3). Eros love style was found to be positively linked with mania and agape love styles, and higher Eros individuals also report higher relationship satisfaction. Surprisingly, ludus love style was positively correlated with storge love style, whereas negatively linked with mania and agape love styles and expectedly, with relationship satisfaction. Storge love style was positively associated with pragma, mania and agape love styles. Pragma love style was positively correlated with mania and agape love styles, and mania love style was found to be positively correlated with agape love style. Results yielded that only eros, mania and agape love styles were found to be positively linked with relationship satisfaction.
It should be noted that there was similar pattern for
age-controlled correlations with zero- order correlations. Results yielded that
when age was controlled, there was no significant association between
Machiavellianism and attachment related avoidance, and the association between
narcissism and eros was disappeared. Psychopathy was not significantly
related with attachment anxiety and storge love style, whereas the negative
relationship between psychopathy and relationship satisfaction was increased
(i.e., from .18 to -.28, see Table3). Association between attachment anxiety
and agape disappeared, but there was an emerged positive association with ludus.
Results yielded that when age is controlled, the negative association between eros and ludus
love styles became significant, whereas the significant associations of ludus
with storge (positive) and mania (negative) disappeared. Agape was no longer
positively related with storge, pragma love styles, and relationship satisfaction.
3.2 Predicting Relationship Satisfaction from Personality
Characteristics, Attachment, and Love Attitudes
A hierarchical regression analysis was conducted to predict individuals’ relationship satisfaction scores from Machiavellianism, narcissism, psychopathy, attachment anxiety, avoidance, and love attitudes. In the first step, participants’ age and gender were added to the equation. In the second step, participants’ dark triad personality characteristics were entered into the equation. After controlling for age, gender, and personality characteristics, attachment anxiety and avoidance were added to the regression model in the third step. Finally, in the last step, love attitudes were entered into the equation to predict relationship satisfaction.
Hierarchical regression analysis yielded significant
results. Specifically, as seen in Table 4, individuals’ age and gender did not
make any significant contributions in predicting relationship satisfaction
reports (R2 =.01, ns, ). In the second step, only psychopathy
negatively predicted relationship satisfaction (β = -.29, p < .001),
signifying individuals with higher psychopathy also reported
lower relationship satisfaction. In the third step, attachment
anxiety negatively predicted self-reported relationship satisfaction (β = -.14, p < .01). Surprisingly, attachment related avoidance positively
predicted relationship satisfaction (β
= .39, p <
.001). Finally, out of the 6 love attitudes, only ludus negatively predicted
relationship satisfaction (β = -.25, p < .01).
Relationship
Satisfaction
|
||
β
|
Δ
R2
|
|
Step 1. Demographics
|
.01
|
|
Gender
|
.04
|
|
Age
|
.05
|
|
Step 2. Personality Characteristics
|
.08**
|
|
Machiavellianism
|
-.03
|
|
Narcissism
|
-.02
|
|
Psychopathy
|
-.29***
|
|
Step 3. Attachment Dimensions
|
.16***
|
|
Anxiety
|
-.14**
|
|
Avoidance
|
.39***
|
|
Step 4. Love Attitudes
|
.18***
|
|
Eros
|
-.08
|
|
Ludus
|
-.25**
|
|
Storge
|
.01
|
|
Pragma
|
.05
|
|
Mania
|
.08
|
|
Agape
|
-.02
|
*p < .05; **p < .01; ***p < .01
Overall, hierarchical
regression analysis suggested that there might be potential mediators
explaining the link between personality characteristics and relationship
satisfaction. Thus, a path analysis
was conducted to test the proposed model. The proposed model examined the
associations between dark triad personality characteristics and relationship
satisfaction via attachment dimensions and love attitudes. Specifically, dark triad personality characteristics, including
Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy, would predict attachment
dimensions (i.e., anxiety and avoidance), and in turn they would predict love
attitudes (i.e., eros, ludus, storge, pragma, mania, and agape) and
relationship satisfaction of participants (see
Figure 1). The proposed model was estimated by using MPlus 6.12 (Muthén
& Muthén,
2002), to test the mediational role of
attachment dimensions and love attitudes in the 43
relations between personality characteristics and
relationship satisfaction. Also, the pathways from personality characteristics
to individuals’ attitudes toward love via attachment dimensions were examined.
Similarly, the link between attachment dimensions and relationship satisfaction
via love attitudes was tested. We utilized maximum likelihood estimation for
parameters.
The estimated model yielded adequate fit to the data (χ2(39) = 129.67, p< .001, CFI = .91, RMSEA = .06 (90% CI=.04 - 08), SRMR = .05). Accordingly, Machiavellianism and narcissism (but not psychopathy) predicted attachment dimensions. Increased Machiavellianism was associated with higher attachment anxiety (β = .24, p < .001) and avoidance (β = .15, p < .01), whereas increased narcissism predicted lower levels of attachment anxiety (β = -.20, p < .001). Besides, the estimated model showed that only attachment anxiety predicted love attitudes. Specifically, attachment anxiety positively predicted ludus, mania, and agape (β = .18, p < .01; β = .31, p < .001; and β = .19, p < .01, respectively). Finally, only ludus predicted self-reported relationship satisfaction negatively (β = -.23, p < .001).
To estimate the bias-corrected bootstrap standard errors
and obtain CIs for the estimates, 1,000 samples were drawn. Confirming the presence of mediation(s), the indirect association of Machiavellianism to
relationship satisfaction through anxiety and ludus was significant.
Machiavellianism was positively related to attachment anxiety, which in turn
predicted increased ludus and lessened relationship satisfaction (95% CI = .29,
- .09). Besides, narcissism was inversely
associated with attachment anxiety; in turn anxiety predicted ludus and lowered relationship satisfaction (95% CI = -.16, -.02).
(Machiavellianism and Narcissism) predicted attachment dimensions, especially attachment
anxiety. Attachment related anxiety characterized by need for approval and
clingy for not being rejected predicted ludus, mania, and agape. In other
words, individuals with higher attachment anxiety reported more short-term
sexual relationships, they are more possessive and jealous in relationships,
and they regard best interest of partner more than own needs. Finally,
individuals’ relationship satisfaction was negatively predicted by only ludus,
signifying that individuals who display promiscuous relationships were more
dissatisfied in romantic relationships.
4. DISCUSSION
The present study
mainly aimed to investigate the predictive power of dark triad personality traits, love styles and
attachment dimensions on relationship satisfaction.
This section aims to discuss the findings of the present
study. In the first part, gender and relationship status differences between
variables are discussed. Second, a discussion of the association between dark
triad personality traits, love styles, attachment dimensions, and relationship
satisfaction are presented. Thirdly, a proposed model indicating the predictors
of relationship satisfaction is presented.
4.1 Discussion
Regarding Gender and Relationship Status Differences
Firstly, it was hypothesized that men will report more psychopathy and
Machiavellianism compared to women. Results revealed that men reported
significantly higher psychopathic and machiavellistic traits.
In the literature, most research
have found that men generally have higher scores in psychopathy than women in both forensic
settings (e.g Verona et al., 2012)
and in civil population (e.g Grann, 2000).
Moreover, previous studies
reported that men score
higher in Machiavellianism than women (Christie & Geis, 1970;
Ali & Chamorro-Premuzic, 2010). Therefore, our
first hypothesis was supported, in correspondence with previous research.
Results also supported that men reported more Ludic love
style, whereas females reported more Manic love style. Therefore, the second
hypothesis considering gender differences (men will adopt Ludus style more and
women adopt Mania love style more) was supported.
This finding is compatible with previous research indicating men are more
likely to have game-playing attitudes, whereas women tend to be more possessive
(Hendrick & Hendrick, 1986). There was not found any significant gender
differences in attachment anxiety, attachment avoidance or relationship satisfaction.
Results indicated that among dark traits, only psychopathy is related with relationship status, signifying that individuals who are in a relationship have more psychopathic traits. Previous literature
reported that people who are high in the dark triad are generally rated by
others as
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more physically attractive (Fowler et al, 2009), and dark triad traits are positively correlated with ‘dressed-up’
attractiveness (Holtzman and Strube, 2013). Being perceived as attractive might be making finding a
partner easy for them.
Moreover, results revealed that individuals in a relationship reported more adoption of Eros love style more than individuals not into anyone/not in a relationship and individuals into someone but not in a relationship with them. Considering Eros is characterized by passion and deep physical attraction, and completely ‘in love’ situation, it is expected that it is more reported by individuals in a current reciprocal relationship, rather than individuals who is into someone but not in a current relationship, or individuals with neither into someone nor in a current relationship.
Surprisingly, another significant finding was regarding
Agape, indicating that individuals who are not into anyone/not in a
relationship reported more Agapic love style. One explanation for this
controversial finding might be these individuals’ willingness to be in love.
Agape is characterized by an idealized approach to love, with sacrificing their
own needs and desires for the best interest of the partner. Because they are
not in a current relationship and they are not into someone, these individuals
might be idealizing a non- existing significant other whom they can display an
agapic lovestyle. Results supported the third hypothesis of the current study.
4. 2 General Associations and Predictions Regarding Dark Triad
Traits, Love Attitudes, Attachment Anxiety and Avoidance, and Relationship
Satisfaction
In this section,
correlations and regressions among measures is discussed. Research
revealed that there is no significant effect of age and gender in
predicting relationship satisfaction.
4. 2. 1 Love Attitudes and Relationship Satisfaction
(Hypotheses 3 and 4)
Results showed that as predicted, eros and agape love
styles were found to be positively related to relationship satisfaction. This finding
is similar to many existing
research reporting eros and
agape positively related to relationship satisfaction (Hendrick, Hendrick &
Adler, 1988; Morrow, Clark &
Brock, 1995). Results supported the third hypothesis of the study. Surprisingly, results
yielded that individuals
with manic love
style also have higher
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relationship satisfaction. This unexpected finding may
derive from the fact that mania love style is highly correlated with passion
aspect of relationship quality (Davis & Latty-Mann, 1987). Another
explanation might be the fact that obsessive love is positively correlated with
relationship satisfaction for short term (new) relationships, whereas it is
negatively correlated for long term relationships (Acevedo & Aron, 2009).
Hence, individuals with manic love style might be in a new relationship and
answer accordingly.
As expected, results supported that ludic love style is negatively related with relationship satisfaction. Ludus love style is found to be a predictor of lower relationship satisfaction. Therefore, the fourth hypothesis was supported. These finding is consistent with previous findings indicating that ludus love style is associated with lower levels of satisfaction in relationships (Hendrick et al., 1988; Frazier & Esterly, 1990; Meeks, Hendrick & Hendrick, 1998).
4.2.2
Love Attitudes and Attachment
(Hypotheses 7 and 8)
As predicted, results revealed that manic love style is
positively related to attachment anxiety. Therefore,
the hypothesis regarding a positive link between mania and anxiety was
supported. However, attachment related anxiety is also found to be related to storgic,
agapic and pragmatic love style.
The most distinguishing characteristic of Agapic
love is that its altruistic and self-sacrificing
nature, with no expectation of reciprocation from partner (Lee, 1998). Agape
lovestyle and anxious attachment share some similarities as they both have an
idealized approach to love, they desire to be close and think of the loved one.
Research suggests that individuals with attachment anxiety need to satisfy the
needs of their partners in a relationship (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007).
These similarities may account for the correlation between Agape and anxious attachment.
On the other hand, the correlation between Pragma and
anxious attachment might be derive of the present
research’s finding that pragma is associated with storge and agape love styles.
These correlations might be account for the association of Pragma with
attachment anxiety.
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As Lee (1973) indicated, storge is characterized by
slow-developing relationship based on companionship. Storge lovers emphasize
companionship and compatibility over physical attraction. Storge lovers
indicated high levels of intimacy (Meeks, Hendrick & Hendrick, 1998).
Therefore, the association between attachment anxiety might be related to the
fact that their high concern for partner’s well-being and being afraid to lose
companion.
Also, in our research, pragma, storge, agape were found to be positively correlated with manic love style, suggesting they are sharing some common elements. Previous research revealed that culture is one of the important factors that determines jealousy, and the degree of jealousy is heightened in cultures which favor marriage and being in a relationship and which restrict sexuality and favor monogamy in sexuality (Davis 1998, Hupka 1981; as cited in Demirtaş & Dönmez, 2006). This might imply that in our culture, jealousy, which is a characteristic of manic love style, is a common element in romantic relationships, therefore it can be a part of many love styles. However, further research regarding prevalence of jealousy in intimate relationships in Turkey is warranted.
A recent research in Turkey regarding jealousy -the core
element of mania love style- revealed that expressed level of jealousy is
positively related to relationship satisfaction. (Demirtaş & Dönmez, 2006).
This finding supported
many previous research
indicating that jealousy is associated with relational rewards
and relational satisfaction (Buunk, 1981; 1986; Hansen, 1983; Hansen 1985;
as cited in Demirtaş-Madran, 2011).
As Buunk, (1991;
as cited in Demirtaş-Madran, 2011) suggested, people
evaluate their relationships as more satisfying based on their rewards and
costs from the relationship. Therefore, it can be suggested that the more
individuals are satisfied with their relationships, the more they have to lose
when the relationship ends; as they gain more from the relationship, they feel
more jealous (Demirtaş & Dönmez, 2006).
Results yielded that attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance are
positively correlated. It was hypothesized that attachment avoidance will
report ludic love style. Unexpectedly, results showed that attachment avoidance
is correlated with eros, storge, pragma, mania, agape love styles. Therefore,
results did not support the eighth hypothesis of the research.
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Theoretical perspectives include that Bartholomew (1990)
conceptualized four attachment styles described as secure, preoccupied
(anxious), fearful (avoidant) and dismissive (avoidant), suggesting that
avoidance has two distinct forms. Fearful individuals deny the desire for
closeness as a defensive strategy, while they are in fact craving for emotional
intimacy but afraid of rejection. Consequently, they experience high levels of
attachment related anxiety and high avoidant behaviour. On the other hand,
dismissive-avoidant individuals, have mistrust for relationships and they value
for independence over closeness. Therefore, they experience lower anxiety and
high avoidant behaviour.
In the light of our findings, it can be concluded that individuals with high anxiety also reported high avoidant behaviour, suggesting that our participants’ form of attachment might be fearful-avoidant. Considering all these associated love styles -eros, storge, pragma, mania and agape- related signifying care for their partner and include closeness at some level, possible explanation for the association with avoidance might because of these fearfully avoidant individuals have lower self-esteem and fear of rejection, this might lead them to display -and report- defensively avoidant behavior.
This suggestion is also consistent with the finding of the present
research describing an association between attachment anxiety and avoidance,
and the previous discussion also compatible with individuals with storge,
pragma, mania, and agape love styles also reported high levels of anxiety.
Mania love style is characterized by insecure, possessive type of love,
constantly obsessive about partner’s attention, therefore, it was expected that
these individuals report higher levels of anxiety. The finding that mania is
associated with higher anxiety is supported our hypothesis.
4.2.3
Attachment and Relationship
Satisfaction (Hypotheses 6)
Results also revealed that as predicted, attachment anxiety is
negatively linked with relationship satisfaction.
In the literature, it was found that anxiously attached
individuals tend to report lower levels of relationship satisfaction,
commitment, trust and interdependence in relationship (Simpson, 1990).
Previous research also
indicated that individuals especially with high
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levels of attachment anxiety consider conflict
as a threat toward their relationships and their
reactions include intense
negative emotions (Paley, Cox, Burchinal, &
Payne, 1999, as cited
in Harma & Sümer, 2015) and relationship-damaging behaviors (Simpson,
Rholes, & Philips, 1996, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015). This also
might imply that individuals with attachment anxiety tend to report more
dissatisfied with their relationship.
Moreover, results also revealed that highly avoidant
individuals reported more relationship satisfaction, and attachment avoidance
predicts higher relationship satisfaction.
Therefore, our hypothesis that highly anxious individuals and highly avoidant individuals will report lower relationship satisfaction, was partially supported. This controversial finding might be stem from the fact that avoidant individuals do not have a low threat threshold such as anxious individuals, and their deactivation strategies allows them to deactivate attachment related feelings and make them less likely to perceive conflict and likely to withdraw, rather than engage further, if disagreements occur (Mikulincer & Florian, 1998, as cited in Harma & Sümer, 2015). This might lead the avoidant individual to be reluctant about reviewing existing relationship problems within the relationship, therefore, individuals with higher attachment avoidance might have illusions regarding their relationship quality. Moreover, self-reported relationship satisfaction may not adequately measure satisfaction from relationships. Previous research suggests that individuals with high attachment avoidance are likely to suppress their emotions, and reluctant to resolve them (Mikulincer, & Shaver, 2007). Their tendency to leave their emotions unresolved might influence their realistic view toward the relationship.
4.2.4
Dark Triad and Love Styles (Hypotheses 11 and 12)
It was hypothesized that Machiavellistic and psychopathic
individuals will report more ludic love style, whereas individuals high on
narcissism will report both erotic (passionate) and ludic love style. Results
supported the hypothesis, signifying that machiavellistic and psychopathic
individuals prefer more game-playing love style, and narcissistic individuals
prefer passionate and game-playing love styles. In the literature, it was found
that individuals with psychopathy traits constantly contemplate or pursue
short-term sexual opportunities, without considering neither their relationship
status nor their potential
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targets’ (Williams et al., 2005). On the other hand, many research
emphasized that Machiavellian individuals believe that that sharing feelings or
personal vulnerabilities indicates weakness which led others to exploit them,
therefore, prefer to show their positive abilities to others and they do not
disclose their feelings or flaws. These features probably have negative reflections
on Machiavellian individuals’ romantic relationships. Research shows that
individuals high on Machiavellianism inclined to avoid being committed,
emotionally intimate with others and they prefer short-term, sexually-driven
relationships with low emotional investment (Jonason, Li, Webster, &
Schmitt, 2009).
Therefore, our findings regarding Machiavellianism and psychopathy are compatible with previous research. Previous research indicates narcissists value physical attractiveness and agentic traits such as status and success, and they prefer attractive and successful partners partially because they identify themselves with their partner (Campbell, 1999). Research also emphasized that narcissistic individuals prefer partners who can provide esteem and status for them both in a direct and indirect way (Campbell, 1999). Therefore, the present findings are in line with the literature.
However, results also yielded that surprisingly, high psychopathy
individuals reported more storgic love style, although the correlation
disappeared when age is controlled. This inconsistent finding may derive from
the fact that psychopaths avoid passionate long term relationships and consider
relationships more of a ‘friend with benefits’ style rather than ‘dedicated
lover’ relationship, which enabled them to pursue other alternatives for sexual
relationships. This finding is consistent with another finding describing a
positive association between psychopathy and ludus love style and that ludus
love style is positively correlated with storge love style.
4.2.5
Dark Triad and Attachment (Hypotheses 9 and 10)
On the other hand, as predicted, Machiavellianism was found to be
related to both attachment avoidance and anxiety, whereas there was no
association between narcissism and either attachment avoidance or attachment
anxiety. Despite the regression findings, path analysis revealed associations
regarding attachment dimensions with both Machiavellianism and narcissism.
These findings will be discussed further.
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Moreover, in contrast with the hypothesis that psychopathic
individuals have higher attachment avoidance, results yielded that psychopathy
is also related with attachment anxiety, indicating that individuals high on
psychopathy reported more concern about their relationship. Thus, results did
not support the eleventh hypothesis of this research.
However, this controversial finding was disappeared when age was controlled. Considering our participants mostly young adults at university, this finding may suggest that young adults have higher attachment anxiety. On the other hand, Blackburn (1993) reported that although displaying antagonistic interpersonal styles is a shared characteristic of both primary and secondary psychopathy, primary psychopathy lack anxiety while secondary psychopathy includes experiencing negative affects such as anxiety. This finding is consistent with present findings, considering SRP-III scale including items regarding both primary and secondary psychopathy.
4.2.6
Dark Triad and Relationship Satisfaction (Hypothesis 5)
It was hypothesized that all three dark triad traits would be linked
with low degrees of relationship satisfaction. Results partially supported the
hypothesis, by revealing that only psychopathy is negatively linked with
relationship satisfaction and predict lower relationship satisfaction. Previous
research suggests that psychopaths demonstrate less commitment and trust
towards their partner (Williams, Spidel and Paulhus, 2005), this finding
implies that psychopaths might have low relationship satisfaction. Furthermore,
a recent research reported that men’s psychopathy is negatively linked with
their relationship satisfaction, whereas it is negatively related to
relationship commitment for both genders (Smith et. al, 2014). Therefore, our
finding is consistent with the previous literature.
4.3
Discussions of the Proposed
Model Regarding Dark Triad Traits, Love Attitudes, Attachment Anxiety and Avoidance, and Relationship Satisfaction
Regression analysis suggested that there might be
potential mediators explaining the link between personality characteristics and relationship satisfaction. In this section,
the proposed model examining
the associations between dark triad personality characteristics and
relationship satisfaction via attachment dimensions and love attitudes are discussed.
In detail, this research predicted that dark triad personality characteristics - 53
Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy-, would
predict attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance, and in turn they would
predict love attitudes and relationship satisfaction of participants.
Results indicated that there is indeed an indirect
influence of Machiavellianism to relationship satisfaction through attachment
anxiety and ludus love style. Overall, Machiavellianism predicted higher
attachment anxiety, which in turn predicted adoption of ludus love style and
lower relationship satisfaction.
Results also yielded that individuals who score low in narcissism, have higher levels of anxiety, and in turn, it leads them to seek other partners, therefore, have lower relationship satisfaction. Conversely, individuals with narcissistic traits have lower attachment anxiety, therefore, they display low game-playing love attitude, and they have higher relationship satisfaction.
In this research, it was predicted that Machiavellianism
and Narcisissm will be positively related with both attachment anxiety
and avoidance. As mentioned before,
regression results revealed
that high Machiavellianism is associated with high attachment avoidance and
attachment anxiety, whereas there
was no association between narcissism and attachment dimensions. However,
further path analysis revealed that high Machiavellianism positively predicts
attachment anxiety, whereas high
Narcissism negatively predicts attachment anxiety.
These findings supoorted our hypothesis.
Many previous studies noted that high Machiavellian
individuals have dysfunctional emotionality including unbalanced emotional
functioning, the experience of negative affect such as increased anxiety, negative and hostile attitudes,
and depressive symptoms (Jakobwitz & Egan, 2006; McHoskey, 2001b; McHoskey et al., 1998; Paulhus & Williams,
2002). Moreover, the positive association between narcissism and attachment
anxiety is supported by many other studies (Dickinson & Pincus, 2003;
Neumann & Bierhoff, 2004; Smolewska & Dion, 2005). Therefore, the
finding of the present research is in line with the literature.
In this research, results yielded that when age is controlled, there
emerged a positive 54
association between attachment anxiety and ludus.
Moreover, our proposed
model indicated that
attachment anxiety predicts ludus love style.
This connection might be explained by the fact that anxious individuals craving for affection and fear of neglect might lead them to constant efforts to get the affection and attention they need from their partner. Schachner & Shaver (2004) emphasized that sexual behavior of an individual with anxious attachment is guided by their need for emotional intimacy, reassurance from their partner, and to reduce their stress. This finding might be implying that others’ attention (acquired by sex) might be used by them as a coping strategy for heightened stress in their relationship. Therefore, pursuing other partners for sexual encounters might be one of their attention-seeking strategies to get their current partner’s attention.
Previous research revealed that early adolescent
attachment anxiety predicts both the presence and frequency of risky sexual
behaviour over the adolescence period (Kobak, Zajac, & Smith, 2009).
One explanation for that connection might be cultural-fit hypothesis (Friedman et. al., 2010; as cited in Harma & Sümer,
2015), describing culturally incongruent attachment characteristics negatively
affecting relationship functioning. Patterns of attachment anxiety and
avoidance culturally vary, based on
the cultural norms regarding emotional closeness in relationships. Many research signified that attachment
anxiety is more common in collectivist cultures, whereas attachment avoidance
is more prevalent in individualistic cultures (Rothbaum et al., 2002; Schmitt
et al., 2003, 2004; Sümer & Kağıtçıbaşı, 2010; as cited in Harma &
Sümer, 2015). Recent research by Harma & Sümer (2015) emphasized that
attachment anxiety is more common than attachment avoidance in the Turkish
cultural context. Therefore, it might explain the dominant influence of
attachment anxiety in our research.
Path analysis also supported that Ludus negatively
predicts relationship satisfaction, consistent with the regression analysis and
previous studies, as mentioned above (see Hypothesis 5).
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4.4
Limitations and Further Implications
Firstly, the sample exclusively comprised university students, thus,
the results obtained can not be generalized to a wider population. Moreover,
because of the participants were mostly young adults, further research
including older populations is needed to better understanding of the
relationship satisfaction.
Secondly, all variables were measured with self~report instruments rather than indirect measurements, implying that there might be faking good effect. Although self-report measures are beneficial and widely used, as some researchers argue, they are inclined to response distortion, or in other words, “faking” (Ones & Viswesvaran, 1998, as cited in MacNeil, 2008). Previous research suggests that psychopathy might enable faking on self- report personality tests (MacNeil & Holden, 2006; as cited in MacNeil, 2008) Furthermore, research yielded that individuals that score high on psychopathic traits are more successful to lower their scores on psychopathy, when they are asked to do so (Edens et al., 2001; Rogers, Vitacco, Jackson, Martin, Collins, & Sewell, 2002; as cited in MacNeil, 2008).
Another limitation of the present study was regarding
Love Attitudes Scale. This 42-item- version of the scale was translated into
Turkish by the researcher and edited by the thesis supervisor. Although
there is a Turkish adaptation of the short version 24-item-short version of Love Attitudes Scale (Hendrick & Hendrick, 1998)
by Büyükşahin ve Hovardaoğlu (2004), with generally acceptable with
reliabilities ranging from .47 (ludus) to .80 (agape), present research used
the original long version of the scale because of its usage in literature
regarding dark triad (Jonason & Kavanagh, 2010) and attachment (Neto, 2007).
The discrepancy between the results of regression
analysis and path analysis (the former indicating that narcissism is
not associated with
attachment dimensions and
the latter indicating that narcissism
is a negative
predictor of attachment
anxiety) necessitates further
research. Moreover, due to the potentially dishonest
answers to the questions
related to the number of long-term, emotional relationships and number of
short-term, sexually-focused relationships, these variables could not be
included in the research. Further research
might investigate how these attitudes, attachment dimensions and
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relationship satisfaction are related with the actual pattern of
relationship preferences.
The studies regarding Dark Triad in our country are very rare, and none of these studies
has explored the role of these traits in romantic relationships. Furthermore,
in our country, none of the
researches regarding relationship satisfaction has investigated the
associations between the influences of dark triad, love styles, attachment
anxiety and attachment avoidance on romantic relationship satisfaction.
Although some controversial findings were
found, the present study is a pioneering research that investigates dark triad
traits in relationship contexts of Turkish individuals.
In summary, this dissertation clarified that
Machiavellianism and narcissism predict relationship satisfaction via
attachment anxiety and ludus love style. The mediator effect of attachment
dimensions and love styles regarding the relationship satisfaction should be
investigated further across broader contexts in future studies.
Aşkım Nur Uysal
Aşkım Nur Uysal
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